It has been a minute since I have even been on this website but I have been having the itch to share / write down what has happened in the last few months. And I still can’t decide if this is premature or too much but with everything, I have no chill so here I am.
The start to me and Mike’s journey to trying to become parents has had a rocky start. In December 2021 I found out I got pregnant on my IUD (insane I know, my doctor was shook but I hope I’m not scaring anyone), it didn’t stick (we think I was around 4 weeks) but it made us realize we were ready to start trying.
Soon there after, in March 2022, I got pregnant again and was so excited! At week 7 I had what we thought was a miscarriage, Mike was out of town (he never is) and it was an incredibly hard week but I was so thankful I had told a few friends who were able to be there for me. That Friday, I went to dry bar for a pick me up and left rushed in terrible pain. After talking to my Dr. I had a friend take me to the ER and my mom met me there. Hours upon hours later I was admitted to the hospital with a plan to have exploratory surgery in the morning because something was not normal . Thankfully Mike arrived the next morning right after I was out of surgery – a surgery that ended up being more than exploratory. While in that yellow dry bar chair trying to get my groove back, a ectopic pregnancy and a small cyst both burst 🤯 and they had to remove 1 of my fallopian tubes and the other 1 didn’t look so hot. Even reading that back is wild and honestly comical – after grieving the miscarriage I was getting some energy back and was trying to feel myself again and BAM I am one tube down and in pain. Also, clearly I am a ‘if you don’t laugh you’ll cry’ type person and am OK which is why I am able to share and say this with a bit of humor.
The thing keeping me from crying or worrying an exorbitant amount? Reading all the amazing infertility week stories of successful IVF babies. We are starting the next chapter of this journey next month and are feeling excited and hopeful.
Say hello back to the blog because I’ll be sharing the journey here. How many times have I said journey 🤦🏼♀️.
Oh wait, one last thing. There is a lot of stigma / conversation around telling people before 12 weeks that you are pregnant and I get it, I do but I also know I could not have gotten through the IUD pregnancy or everything in March without my girlfriends. I am [clearly] a sharer and so sharing the news is what felt most natural to me. So with all of that said and done, if you feel the desire to share with your people, share!
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turtleneck, puffer jacket, black scarf, black jeans, blush, tinted serum, mascara, denim shirt, blue jeans, green quilted jacket, black boots, cashmere socks, mens sweater, beige sweater, beanie, cowgirl boots, fur bag
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Weekly Favorites
Shopbop Sale
It’s time to shop for fall! I think the Shopbop buy more save more is the perfect time to not only get classic pieces for the next season buy throw in a few of those trendier items to push your cart over the edge to the next saving bracket!
In my shopping cart:
Vince Sweaters – they are my favorite and always come in the richest colors!
Loeffler Randall Shoes – this past spring I finally got the gold knot heels and I know understand why people have multiple pairs. They are so comfortable and go with everything, I now want the flat sandal too.
Staud Dresses – the fit of their dresses is just next level – so flattering!
Cashmere Wraps – talk about something that will last you YEARS!
Mother Denim – when in doubt, get a new pair of high-rise jeans
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Honeymoon Packing
Okay I know it is a little nuts to admit I am already the majority of the way packed for our honeymoon in April but I am nuts soo…whatever! I am sharing today because I don’t want these gems to be sold out by the time April rolls around!
I have a dear friend who graciously gifted me a Zimmerman bathing suit and y’all I would 100% pay full price for one now. The material is soo thick, holds you and makes you feel secure – not “I am half naked in a flimsy piece of stretchy material”.
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Top Swim Reccomendations
We have booked our honeymoon which means the search for bathing suits is ON. I have never gotten into bathing suits, I don’t love how I look in them (my own issues I am aware) so I never have invested in a good one. Truly, don’t think I have ever spent more than $30 on a bathing suit in my entire life! But that has to change because even with my cheapies there still isn’t one I pull out and know I will feel good in.
While on my deep internet and IG search I came across an article titled “I have a small chest and tried on a bunch of swim suits to show you which is best”, I thought score this is going to be great….the girl did NOT have small boobs. Like her editor needs to reevaluate their definition of small boobs and give me a call for reference. SOO with that, I look to IG to ask you all what your favorite swim brands are for small chests. Here is what you said:
Bondi Born: Really pretty cuts and amazing cover ups! More available here.
Marsyia: Can we call her a classic yet?
Solid & Striped: They always do such fun stuff!
Jade: This is a new to me brand and V cool girl!
Hunza G: I have had a shopping cart open with the thin strap one piece in it for weeks! But honestly I am having trouble pulling the trigger because there seems to be a lot of booty exposure!
Andie Swim: This one I cannot stop getting IG ads for and their one pieces are beautiful and look super flattering! You take a quick quiz on the site and they tell you which they think would be best for you!
Mara Hoffman: Another I view as a “classic” – her coverups / beach dresses are also soo good!
Zulu & Zephyr: Another new to me cool brand that has beautiful colors and ribbed fabric!
Peony: This one keeps coming across my searches and Net-a-Porter has a ton on sale!
Skye & staghorn: Of course one of my coolest friends sent me this one! Marsyia pricing but (imo) cooler prints.
American Eagle/ AE Swim: Talk about a classic! I think I have one from a few years ago, their price point is so great and they always have fun prints!
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Black Friday with Shopbop
The sales have arrived! Since getting engaged I have kinda stopped my shopping and have only been getting things for the wedding butttt that is all going out the window this week!
Today until Monday (11/30) Shopbop is giving you 20% when you spend more than $200 – easy peasy! In my shopping cart, this tank that reminds me of Brock for beyond a fraction of the price, another silly Unfortunate Portrait tee is that is soo me and a good white bathing suit for our honeymoon!
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